Relaxed & Forward Blog

Running in Circles

 I was asked to write about lunging and I assume this means with no swear words. I don't know why...
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Photo Challenge: Delta

Walking the washout, high desert ground between pond silt and prairie pasture, I know to look for crushed cans, bits...
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Teaching Your Horse to Relax

The rider said that her mare had an undeniable "rushiness" and was always tense. The mare is five years old...
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Photo Challenge: Transient

A hand flattened to shade my brow, questioning the late-afternoon glare diced with shadow, not certain I should trust my...
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Bit or Bitless? You Won’t Like the Answer.

Does anyone agree on bits? No. Is riding bitless the perfect solution? No. I've been asked for some bitless information,...
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Photo Challenge: Focus

  This willful mare will not be owned. She makes choices; her neck softens lower as she turns her ear...
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Caring for the Lead Mare

It was a perfect day. There were just enough clouds to soften the heat. The front gate didn't open once all day...
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Photo Challenge: Order

The passing hours of this hot-dry day spook and buck and bolt, swirling together and scattering apart in a a...
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Learning to Love Negotiation

Rule number one about horses: There will be a high learning curve. Most of us are drawn to horses because...
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Composing a Writer #12. What True Self-Publishing Means

I've lost count of the times I've been told I was destroying my life. It started in high school where...
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Photo Challenge: Friend

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCHCTZqU3p4 One likes to be alone. One likes to sleep a lot. One likes contrary opinions. One doesn't care what...
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Mounting Block Conversations

This is Andante. He likes to have a conversation at the mounting block. He wasn't always like this. In his...
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Composing a Writer #11. Submission and Rejection

I'm not proud of what I did. In my defense, I was in my early twenties; old enough to know...
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Photo Challenge: Evanescent

After the bay gelding's leg is doctored and wrapped, I walk the fence line looking at bent posts and hair...
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There's No Romance in Rescue

It's my bi-annual report on the animals fostered here at Infinity Farm. I try to balance on a tightrope when I...
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Composing a Writer #10. A Manuscript is Not a Book

Let's say pigs fly. You've written the thing you always wanted to write. It's a miracle. It's been in your mind...
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Photo Challenge: Heritage (with Doghair)

The dog watches me sit at the edge of the bed pulling a frayed t-shirt over my head, shoulders rounded...
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Calming Signals: YOUR Response.

Photo by Sheri Kerley I'll start with the bad news. For those of us who grew...
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