Relaxed & Forward Blog

When I Met You.

Welcome to the Rocky Mountain Horse Expo. Let me start by saying it was never my fantasy to spend a...
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Carrots Aren't Enough.

We've had a lot of company at the farm lately. Sometimes I take them into the family pen. The Grandfather...
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Anthropomorphic Thoughts About Spaying Mares.

He said we don't need to import sport horses; we have great horses right here; we're under-using great mares. More...
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Natural Instinct: The Human Half

The more we riders understand about horse instinct, the better. Instinct is the starting place; a behavioral baseline from which...
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Behavior, Personality, and Anxiety.

Can you tell the difference between personality, who a horse is, and behavior, what a horse does? With people it...
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Buying the Right to Make a Correction.

She's Tomboy. I don't write about her often enough; she's a little more serious than my corgi men. She's a...
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The Long Goodbye: Meet Vinnie

It makes perfect sense to tell the story of an off-the-track Thoroughbred in the midst of the Triple Crown frenzy--with...
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Listen First, Train Later.

Photo by Patrick McMahan The first time I met him, he was two months old standing...
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It’s a Riding Lesson- What Could Possibly Go Wrong?

Photo: J.J. Fierro. It starts innocently enough, just like every other thing that happens around horses....
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Couples Therapy or Horse Agility?

You both show up at the appointed hour. One of you is more enthusiastic, the other one is second guessing...
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Humor Deficit Disorder: Serious Riders and Stoic Horses.

"Seriously, you are no fun at all. I hate to say it, you're my human, but really, lighten up!" Humor...
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Beware: Colic Season.

She was lying flat- eyes closed, flank tense and very quiet. As I got closer I could see lots of...
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Do you think it’s time to clean the truck?

My hay guy got a new truck- a pristine dually in a pearlized-platinum color, with near Porsche-like lines. That big...
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I notice that no one is asking me for beauty tips.

I have been blogging along for a couple of years now and I notice that no one is asking me...
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A Lesson in Change.

The head of the herd at Infinity Farm is the kind of horse you might call Grandfather- with reverence. He...
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Horse Cruelty, Ignored.

Anna Sewell authored Black Beauty in 1877. She wrote the book to educate about animal cruelty and promote a more...
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