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Going Where You're Invited

Lately I've been haunted by this drumming thought: Now would be a good time to do something smart. It doesn't...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Edge

It's that time of day/ year/ life. Balanced close enough to the edge that gravity goes pastel light and the...
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Serenity NOW! (Training Calmness)

She wrote, "I struggle with him to stand still. I suspect he recognizes I am nervous."I'm answering an email question...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Mirror

There's a mirror flashing a signal, a code that lights my pond blue: I'll watch now. You rest. ... Anna...
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Halt, Rein-back, Cha-cha-cha.

This is how it feels: It's a trot that's resistance free. He glides with relaxed strides. At first you think...
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How I Spent Your Summer Vacation.

Do you ever have that feeling that you're watching a foreign film, only it's broad daylight and your own life?...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Frame

Wear black and drink the gallery wine. Formulate an intellectual opinion. Consider your emotions. Or Show so much tooth your...
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The Fine Art of Cantankery.

I've had a hard time acting my age. That's not it, exactly. It's more like I'm straddling the Grand Canyon...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Rare

Such hopeful ease, confidence in the face of contrary possibility, is rare for man.   Anna Blake at Infinity Farm...
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Judging Dressage

Dressage isn't perfect, but what part is baby and what part is bath water? Watching the Dressage competition at the...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Fun

The secret he bleated was repeated with a neigh and a bray: hooray for today! ... *apologies to anyone looking...
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A Trailer of One's Own

A horsewoman told me that, at sixty-three, she was the proud owner of her very first horse trailer. I let...
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Barn Dance! Almost Soon!

Do you have friends who love playing games? My relatives were big card players--Pinochle, Canasta, Cribbage. I grew up to...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Morning

  The sun rises pale and delicious on the prairie. Take your coffee to the barn; baby pink clouds diffuse...
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How to Ride Creatively.

Riding a horse is the simplest thing in the world. Just point 'em and kick. What's so hard about that?...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Narrow

He takes a narrow view of rain and a chill wind. He takes a narrow view of sharp voices, quick...
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Money: If Wishes were Horses…

"How much does a horse cost? Do you have to be rich to own one?" I can tell you how...
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Photo Challenge: Cherry on Top

Maybe it’s just simple math. The cumulative tally of giving versus withholding. Of offering open space for a wisp of an...
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