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WPC: Between.

  Between our heads and their hearts, between our feet and their flanks, between our hands and their mouth, let there...
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Wrestling with Helmet Safety.

  I almost got in a bar fight a few months back. It was bad: I got frustrated and when...
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WPC: Extra, Extra

It is hard to put into words what the thing is about horses. What the extra different thing this animal...
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An Argument Against the Whip.

There is a time-worn adage about whips. Just like bits or spurs, whips are only as cruel or kind as...
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Inspiration from Ruby Ranch Horse Rescue.

Viking re-homed, Beryl still looking. Some rescue groups prove their point by showing graphic photos of...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Twist

A gentle twist, a rolling curve, and a suspension of disbelief. Because why should braiding a mane be any less...
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Training is Like a Box of Chocolates…

Say hello to Mr. Mustache. That's what I call him. He was relinquished to Ruby Ranch Horse Rescue and my...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Work of Art

This is an odd photo for my blog. It's a work of art, unusual gemstones in a unique pendant, hand...
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Getting Happy About What You Don’t Know.

Most of us started as back yard riders. No shame, we were kids, we climbed up and rode. When we...
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Horse Agility and Calming Signals.

It’s that time again. I fill a cart the dollar store and a glimpse in the rear view mirror while...
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It’s a Riding Lesson- What Could Possibly Go Wrong?

Photo: J.J. Fierro. It starts innocently enough, just like every other thing that happens around horses....
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Calming Signals: Are You Listening?

If you are standing next to your horse and he looks away, do you think he's distracted or even disrespectful?...
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Training Confidence and Trust.

There's a way that a mare can pin her ears back so hard that they make almond-shaped divots on her...
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Dressage on a Rescue: Doing More with Less

Andante, ex-PMU, casts a giant shadow. I have a confession. I shop-lifted when I was in...
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Volunteering 101: Come Get Me.

This week spring hit the Colorado prairie. You can tell because the temperature and the wind speed are the same....
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Subtle Abuse: When Aids Become Weapons.

My client's mare is lovely; a very well-bred athletic horse. When my client bought her, the previous owner suggested my...
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The Art is in the Transition.

When I see kids learning to drive these days in compact cars with automatic transmissions, I wonder where's the challenge?...
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Explaining Dressage: the small print.

First of all, the reason Dressage needs some explaining is that the there are some misconceptions about this riding discipline....
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