Relaxed & Forward Blog

Vet Visit! Breathing is Connection.

Emergency vet call! One of my boarded horses is sick. He's a draft cross, timid but kind. He likes things...
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Being Grateful for Things You Don't Like.

My favorite training mentor had a habit that drove me nuts. She would be working with a horse who spooked...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Mini-malist

Spartan. Austere. Spare. Not more than required. Mini-mialist.  Anything but... Anna Blake, Infinity Farm. WordPress Photo Challenge is a weekly prompt...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Descent

Descent means 'a way down' and it is how we learn to ride. Our information and learning trickles down from...
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When Horses Go Through Menopause.

Disclaimer: I'm not a vet. Or a doctor. But someone has to talk about it. How can you tell your...
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Horse Rescue: The Psychological Aspect of Physical Abuse.

I boarded the first horse I owned as an adult. It gave me something I hadn't had in the past:...
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A Call to Arms. (or how to get on the wrong side of a horseperson.)

You've had this happen. Someone finds out you have a horse and they ask, “Do you know my sister’s friend,...
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Ground Play, Cavalia style!

My Clara, at liberty and trotting up fast. This week, I attended Cavalia, the Cirque du...
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Breath: The Miracle Cue.

It might be the word I say more often than any other during a lesson. I know it's the cue...
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*Needs Confident Rider*

*Needs a confident rider*. If you see those words while paging though horse ads, what do you think? Used car salesmen...
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A Recipe for Patience.

I want to start by saying I used to consider patience the exact same thing as procrastination. I had no...
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You be the Judge.

“Too bad about that half pass to the left.” My horse and I were leaving the arena after my test,...
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What does the horsie say? Seriously.

Our barn rat, Hannah, didn't meet the horses her first visit to the farm. She was only 3 days old....
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Dressage: Cackling at the Canter.

Beach attire for the serious dressage rider. In the 80's, I marched with the Ladies Against...
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Breaking up is hard to do. Is it time?

It was lunch break and the clinician came into the lounge to eat. She was an experienced competitor and focused...
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Listen First, Train Later.

Photo by Patrick McMahan The first time I met him, he was two months old standing...
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WPC: Contrasts

Contrasts show the far extremes. They show the difference; an attempt to understand right from wrong through black and white...
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Contact: Holding hands with horses.

What is the world’s speed record for learning to ride on happy contact? 18 years? Maybe 23? It’s a joke...
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