Relaxed & Forward Blog

It Could Be Worse. You Could Be Married to Me.

"Honey, when you're in town will you pick something up for me?" I don't quite wait for the answer. "Great,...
Read More about It Could Be Worse. You Could Be Married to Me.

Photo & Poem: Limbo

  As if struck by lightning, the horse died; a clean and horrible quiet. No diagnosis, no cure, no negotiation....
Read More about Photo & Poem: Limbo

Photo & Poem: Home Farm

The mare stands square, extending her neck, surveying the pond marsh. Are the coyotes on the move? She takes three...
Read More about Photo & Poem: Home Farm

Photo & Poem: Coyote Run

Ancient mountains send coarse sand and sharp stone down, just pebbles at a time, to leave us unsteady on our...
Read More about Photo & Poem: Coyote Run

The Next Horse: Remounting after the Hardest Fall of All

    This perfect horse of yours has been with you since he was young, or you got him near...
Read More about The Next Horse: Remounting after the Hardest Fall of All

Photo & Poem: Hunger Moon

Fresh snow fell yesterday and more will come tomorrow, but in the still between-time, a full moon sits high in...
Read More about Photo & Poem: Hunger Moon

Photo & Poem: Hand-Me-Downs

  Leota would send a note warning that she’d put something in the mail and we waited. She was a...
Read More about Photo & Poem: Hand-Me-Downs

Photo & Poem: Secrets

She attended church with joyless obligation, lip-syncing hymns that praised suffering, with dentures that never quite fit, never a genuine...
Read More about Photo & Poem: Secrets

Cantankary: If Not Now, When?

Expecting New Year's resolutions from me? Nope, I'm not the type. I am so thrilled to have survived another year...
Read More about Cantankary: If Not Now, When?

Photo & Poem: Horse. Woman.

There were always horses, some light and some dark. The woman met them in passing or they stayed forever; some...
Read More about Photo & Poem: Horse. Woman.

The Future for Horse-Keepers: Isolation or World Change?

It's what we do: We keep horses. Sometimes a foal too young to be ridden, so we show patience and...
Read More about The Future for Horse-Keepers: Isolation or World Change?

Photo & Poem: Rich

  Our family farm was leased from the man who owned the car dealership in town. Once or twice a...
Read More about Photo & Poem: Rich

Calming Signals: How to Show Love

"How do you show your love for horses, then?" A clinic participant asked me at the end of a long...
Read More about Calming Signals: How to Show Love

Photo & Poem: Girl-Cousin

Seems every farm family had one in a generation; a distant misfit girl-cousin who read too much or wore men’s...
Read More about Photo & Poem: Girl-Cousin

In Training to Be a Late Bloomer

He was a bona fide dressage master. We were lucky to have him come for a clinic. It was the...
Read More about In Training to Be a Late Bloomer

Life Coach: The Goat Version

It was a beautiful end-of-summer afternoon, just about feeding time. Cupid had been with us a few months by then....
Read More about Life Coach: The Goat Version

Photo & Poem: Holiday Place

  You had a plan for how this would go when you left home. Longing for a thing different than...
Read More about Photo & Poem: Holiday Place

Photo & Poem: You Know the Way

  The rhythm of hooves over even soft ground, we’ve lost time out together, rocked safe in the saddle like...
Read More about Photo & Poem: You Know the Way

Subscribe to Blog via Email

Enter your name and email to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged.