Relaxed & Forward Blog

A Call to Arms. (or how to get on the wrong side of a horseperson.)

You've had this happen. Someone finds out you have a horse and they ask, “Do you know my sister’s friend,...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Endurance

Endurance is the main ingredient in old age. My Grandfather horse has endured infirmity, climate change, and the weight of...
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Ground Play, Cavalia style!

My Clara, at liberty and trotting up fast. This week, I attended Cavalia, the Cirque du...
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A Cowgirl looks (squints) at 60.

88 Years of (combined) excellence. I notice I wear my glasses in the shower more often...
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Breath: The Miracle Cue.

It might be the word I say more often than any other during a lesson. I know it's the cue...
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*Needs Confident Rider*

*Needs a confident rider*. If you see those words while paging though horse ads, what do you think? Used car salesmen...
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WordPress Photo Challenge: Fray.

There is a place that is not the earth and not the sky, an in-between place where some of us...
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A Recipe for Patience.

I want to start by saying I used to consider patience the exact same thing as procrastination. I had no...
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What does the horsie say? Seriously.

Our barn rat, Hannah, didn't meet the horses her first visit to the farm. She was only 3 days old....
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WPC: ZigZag

A chestnut zigzag. Well, more of a wave pattern, but we are not very angular here. And this color isn't...
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Dressage: Cackling at the Canter.

Beach attire for the serious dressage rider. In the 80's, I marched with the Ladies Against...
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Breaking up is hard to do. Is it time?

It was lunch break and the clinician came into the lounge to eat. She was an experienced competitor and focused...
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Listen First, Train Later.

Photo by Patrick McMahan The first time I met him, he was two months old standing...
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Contact: Holding hands with horses.

What is the world’s speed record for learning to ride on happy contact? 18 years? Maybe 23? It’s a joke...
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WPC: Between.

  Between our heads and their hearts, between our feet and their flanks, between our hands and their mouth, let there...
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Wrestling with Helmet Safety.

  I almost got in a bar fight a few months back. It was bad: I got frustrated and when...
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WPC: Extra, Extra

It is hard to put into words what the thing is about horses. What the extra different thing this animal...
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An Argument Against the Whip.

There is a time-worn adage about whips. Just like bits or spurs, whips are only as cruel or kind as...
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