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Victim of Love: The In-Your-Pocket Horse.

Photo credit: Carol Walker, Living Images -Written by request from another trainer. Nothing I am about...
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The Dressage/Massage Warm-up.

What if an arena ride had the effect of a massage for a horse? Wouldn’t the rider feel great too?...
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Dressage: It Rhymes with Massage.

 Horses have been a key part of our culture ever since they civilized us centuries ago- in everything from transportation...
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Love + Fear = Confidence

It starts pretty much the same way for most of us: One day we see a horse. He's beautiful and...
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Why I Have No Sense of Humor About Arena Footing.

I have no sense of humor about arena footing. None. Let me start here: I don't consider a plowed up...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Blue

 A different kind of blue eye: not blue- the color, and not blue- the emotion. Silver blue like a dream...
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Do you think it’s time to clean the truck?

My hay guy got a new truck- a pristine dually in a pearlized-platinum color, with near Porsche-like lines. That big...
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A Retirement Resistant Spirit.

‎An article of mine was published in a national dressage magazine in 2006. Spirit had been retired two years and...
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Spotless- My introduction to Dressage.

Please excuse the photo quality- it's from the 80's. I have no excuse at all for...
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Walk Detention

I've been remembering my first experience in Walk Detention. It was the dark ages and I was a training level...
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Nope, it’s Me- I’m Too Sensitive (Part Two.)

“You know what your problem is? You're too sensitive.” Ouch. Have you heard this? It feels like being accused of...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Down

Down, with a Trusting Eye. Anna, Infinity Farm.
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Absurd Helmet Excuses.

This week there was a photo of Queen Elizabeth riding at age 85. Bless her heart; she has always been...
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Let’s Dance.

Ernest & Grace trip the light fantastic.
The connection between horses and music is not abstract....
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Love Poem

I fell in love with horses all over again this week. Yes, it was a pretty short fall and yes,...
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Riding as an Art. Literally.

I am hooked on the writings of classical trainers. It isn't that I am an elitist; they use an inspiring word that...
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Under Saddle: Control and Freedom.

The equestrian world can seem kind of bi-polar. Some of us ride like headless (brainless) horsemen with little consciousness for...
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Boss Mare: Women and Honesty.

Lately, I am discovering I like mares more and more. They are so NOT like most of us humans.  They...
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