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The Day of the Dead: Barn Version.

You’d think that the first snow/death-to-flies celebration would cheer me up. But no, days are shorter now and I'm haunted...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: The Hue of You

Infinity Farm is a pretty colorful place, a vibrant palette of sky and landscape, with bold, iridescent personalities in our...
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It’s Different for Girls…Body Image and Riding.

What do you think when you see this photo? Do you notice that sweet S-curve in his tail? It’s the...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Infinite

There is a space inside of a horse that has no borders, no ceiling, no base. It's an infinite space...
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Better Saddle Conversations.

Think of riding as a conversation. The first challenge is that we don't all speak English. And it isn't only...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Saturated

Saturated. Drenched. Soaked. And feeling fine about it. The summer started with fire and evacuations, and ended with a month...
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What to Do When Nothing Works.

We all have those rides where the simplest thing, the thing we do all the time, becomes impossible. The horse...
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The Battle Cry of An Old Gray Mare.

"Do You Work Out?" I find this question difficult to answer. I'm never sure what they are asking but it...
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Rant from a Gray Mare.

"Do You Work Out?" I find this question difficult to answer. I'm never sure what they are asking but it...
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This Too Shall Pass.

The temperature had plummeted to 70 degrees, with a light breeze. Welcome, September. There was almost an hour of daylight...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Focus

A foggy day, a photo out of focus, and a gray cloud of a horse, cantering. The only thing focused...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Carefree

Carefree. Living in the moment really does lighten the load. She was three weeks old here, and her feet barely...
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Bits: Metal on Bone.

The first thing she said in her lesson was that this horse had sent her to the emergency room more...
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Grouchy about Groundwork.

I've let loose a few decent rants about groundwork lately. I should apologize about the goose-shrill tone in my voice,...
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Walter on the Predator/Prey Thing.

Walter likes to think he's an only dog. Walter likes to think of himself as amazingly...
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Dressage Fundamentals: One Day at a Time.

A few weeks ago it was cold and dark; winter is miserable horse weather. It was impossible to ride some...
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Rescued by a Horse.

Have you ever been rescued by a horse? How old were you? Does it still happen? I've been thinking about...
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Couples Therapy or Horse Agility?

You both show up at the appointed hour. One of you is more enthusiastic, the other one is second guessing...
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