Relaxed & Forward Blog

See It Through His Eyes

It's a perfect day. No wind, not hot. The kind of day that you spend most of the months of...
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A Natural Instinct to Dominate

I find it fascinating to watch children talking to animals. It's almost like studying mustangs. Kids are who we are,...
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Bringing Horses Home

We don't ask much from horses. It starts simply. On the day that we are thrilled to get the horse...
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The Art of De-Escalating

It's an ordinary day. Quiet, no wind. You could be on the trail or in the arena. You might be...
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Building the Bubble #5. Just Honor Them

  Some of us value horses for their physical working ability on ranches, we "use 'em hard." Decent care, no...
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Building the Bubble #2. Just Converse

  One of us flaps our legs while standing still, banging our boots in the stirrups, twisting around in the...
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Building the Bubble #1. Just Notice

Here's last week's Pretending to be a Horse scenario, from the equine point of view, abbreviated for sense-limited humans. His...
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What Trainers Do You Like?

I often get asked what I think of other trainers. Sometimes I have no idea who the trainer is, any...
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Travel Blog: Kangaroos Ahead

Here is another weird thing about my job. I never have any idea where I might end up. First, I...
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Photo Challenge & Poem: Out of This World

You are right to be wary of us, little mare. Your hooded eyes dark and silent, you must be concerned,...
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Riders Against Bullies

Railbirds. Everyone's a critic. I'm no fun anymore. I can't go to rodeos, a tradition I...
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Horses Are Pessimists

Your horse is a young horse or a rescue horse or the heart-horse of your life. A mare or a...
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Horses: Technique and Art

"Shut Up and Dance" It was written on one of those little tin lapel pins and my friend wore it...
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Travel Blog: Where the Trail Leads…

  I know people who read cookbooks like they're high-drama best sellers. I know people who fantasize wild lives of...
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The Middle Path: Discipline

"I've noticed that you sometimes seem to take reader requests for your blog, and I was wondering if you might...
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Your Horse Loves Arena Riding

Does your horse have a Night of the Living Dead lurch to the arena? Do you clock in like it’s...
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Talking Animals at Midnight

Just in from the night feed. It's longjohn weather, my head bandaged with layers of hats and a muffler, thick boots,...
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Seriously Lighthearted

Do you ever get the impression that your show up at the barn and your horse is watching you with...
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