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Calming Signals and Pain

  First, last, and always, make sure your horse is sound.  That's the warning that any decent equine professional gives...
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Trust: A Suspension of Disbelief.

You love horses. No, you really, really love horses. Because they are so amazing. We share videos of blind horses cared...
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Circles: A Soft Bend

I'd led a sheltered life. I was thirty years old before I visited my first Saddlebred barn. I was just...
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Riding the Middle: My Horse is Lazy.

My horse is lazy. He won't go forward. He doesn't listen to my legs no matter what. Do I need...
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Too Much Love: Is it Partnership?

Last week I answered a reader question about Making War on Horses and it got a predictably positive reception. It's...
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Making War on Horses: Is it Leadership?

By reader request: "Horses need a dominant leader; you have to make him respect you." "You can't let him get away...
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Escape the Death Spiral: Asking For a Step.

Let me begin by defining a death spiral. It's asking a horse to do something he just avoided, by circling...
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Photo Challenge & Poem: Waiting

The air goes still on the prairie during that instant when my finished inhale lifts gravity and just before the...
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Leadership Percentages and Confused Horses

Pause here. Look in his eye. He's sensitive and intelligent and looking for a partner who's his equal. If we're...
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Common Sense about Horse Communication

The first thing to remember about horses is that their senses are just better than ours. I’ve never trusted my...
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Teaching Your Horse to Relax

The rider said that her mare had an undeniable "rushiness" and was always tense. The mare is five years old...
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Learning to Love Negotiation

Rule number one about horses: There will be a high learning curve. Most of us are drawn to horses because...
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Mounting Block Conversations

This is Andante. He likes to have a conversation at the mounting block. He wasn't always like this. In his...
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Calming Signals: YOUR Response.

Photo by Sheri Kerley I'll start with the bad news. For those of us who grew...
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Concept Clinics: A different approach

I've been thinking for a while now about the process of learning. It could have something to do with the number...
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Release: The Unflattering Truth

A few weeks ago, I was standing, talking with a client at the end of her lesson. She was at...
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How to Defuse a Horse Bomb

Maybe you're mentally arranging your to-do list, or rehashing an imaginary rant about something that happened at work, or just...
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Calming Signals and Equine Gastric Ulcers.

These are two of my favorite topics and I write about them often, but this post is about how calming...
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