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Weekly Photo Challenge: Victory

Victory: Every day that I get to stand right here. (Passion is the easy part. Living with it is the...
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When Your Horse Falls In a Hole.

Horses fall into holes all the time. Metaphoric holes; the really tricky kind that jump up and surprise you when...
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Your Horse is NOT Your Therapist.

There's a cartoon of a roadside stand with a horse inside. The sign says, "Therapy." We all smile because we're...
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Anthropomorphic Thoughts About Spaying Mares.

He said we don't need to import sport horses; we have great horses right here; we're under-using great mares. More...
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Permission to NOT Ride.

Last Tuesday I had an 8 a.m. lesson with a boarder and her sweet gelding. He's had a good summer;...
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Listening with Your Seat.

How's your derrière? Is posterior a more delicate word than rump? Our culture has a lot of fanny chatter: too...
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Dressage Factions and the Real Reason to Compete.

I'm a traditionalist when it comes to the art of dressage. I love the structure, the fundamentals, the words of...
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Goats: A Different 12 Step Program.

It just hasn't been the same since Sumo died. He was my last old-goat-standing and a card-carrying anarchist. He'd been...
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How to Love Horses Forever.

We were born this way. It should be part of the Apgar test. It would resolve so much if newborns...
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It's About Greeks and Romans. Even Today.

Is there a natural way to ride a horse? Is it possible to ride in such a way that the...
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Natural Instinct: The Human Half

The more we riders understand about horse instinct, the better. Instinct is the starting place; a behavioral baseline from which...
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Helmets, Gravity, and Human Superiority.

August 1st is International Helmet Awareness Day. It's the day Riders4Helmets started, in the wake of US Olympian Courtney King-Dye's...
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Behavior, Personality, and Anxiety.

Can you tell the difference between personality, who a horse is, and behavior, what a horse does? With people it...
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Consistency: Doing Math in the Saddle.

Consistency is a great aid but do you know how it actually works? There's an analogy I heard decades ago...
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What Is Home?

Yes, it's a book review, but I couldn't help myself.
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How to Ride like a Kid.

Remember riding when you were a kid? We climbed on top from a gate or a truck bumper. No bridle,...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Off-Season

Mud splashing almost always off-season here in Colorado, but this year the pond flooded so many times in May that...
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Calming Signals and Equine Gastric Ulcers.

These are two of my favorite topics and I write about them often, but this post is about how calming...
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