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The Best Reasons to Stop Riding

  I think I've heard all the clichés about change that I can stand. At a certain age, we don't...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Quest

Go the distance. Do it with grace or do it ugly, because some days that's what your best looks like. It...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Edge

It's that time of day/ year/ life. Balanced close enough to the edge that gravity goes pastel light and the...
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Photo Challenge: Cherry on Top

Maybe it’s just simple math. The cumulative tally of giving versus withholding. Of offering open space for a wisp of an...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Numbers

Yellow solstice to blue. I’ve lost count of the seasons. Was that the year of the big blizzard? Or was...
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What I Didn't Know Then

It seems that most things I learn about horses, I learn in hindsight. It's not a bad thing. Horses learn...
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Beyond the Fence Line.

I have a neighbor, a couple of properties to the north, who brings his cattle home to calve each spring....
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Valentine's Day and a Goat Tail. I Mean Tale.

Is it too soon to say the word? Sure, there's more snow coming. You'd be nuts to pack away the...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Time

 It would be a good thing to make friends with time. In these last years, I think it's the thing...
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On Women, Bravery, and Being Old Gray Mares

Do you have a mentor? Someone you respect who's just a few strides ahead of you, and when they go...
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Health Insurance and Horse Dreams

Foot surgery this Friday--it's like preparing for a trip that I don't get to take. All the stress of canceling...
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On Being an Old Gray Mare With Chronic Lameness

It's a shooting pain. Usually my foot is brick-tight and I can't bend my toes. When I do manage to...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Happy Place

It's no surprise--my Happy Place is always with the herd. Here's the Grandfather Horse. I'm hoping winter will be kind...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Inspiration.

"Just a horse." A $600. stud colt. Out of Nifty Sally; no pedigree to speak of. Not especially athletic.  ...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Muse

Sometimes I see a father playing with his child, tossing her in the air and catching her, holding her tight...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Vivid

The memories are as vivid as black and white, as stark as night and day, and as real as skin...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: On the Way (to Forever)

Another day rolls on and another night creeps forward, on the way to the place mortality rests. If there is...
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Horses and Tulips.

At some distant moment in the past, probably after seeing The Miracle of the White Stallions when I was a...
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