Relaxed & Forward Blog

Winterizing the Compassion Fatigue. Again.

Chatting lightly about weather is considered the tiniest of small talk, unless you live outside the urban bubble. We take...
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The Fine Art of Cantankery.

I've had a hard time acting my age. That's not it, exactly. It's more like I'm straddling the Grand Canyon...
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A Trailer of One's Own

A horsewoman told me that, at sixty-three, she was the proud owner of her very first horse trailer. I let...
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Money: If Wishes were Horses…

"How much does a horse cost? Do you have to be rich to own one?" I can tell you how...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Pure

Not politics, religion; not money or guns. Answer deep and pure, in our heart, soul; our Earth and Sun. ~~~Read...
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Mansplaining in the Barn

Thirty-five years ago, I stood with a group of women protesting a murder sentence given by a judge in Denver....
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Women as Predators.

Do you identify as a predator? I was at a horse show a few years back, helping a client. It...
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Talking About the Future with Your Vet.

Are you happy with your veterinarian? It's the question I ask when a client loses a horse or has a...
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Freak Riding Accident? Hardly. (Helmets, Please)

The horse world has lost some good riders in the last few weeks. Sadly, it happens all too often. Horses...
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Carrots Aren't Enough.

We've had a lot of company at the farm lately. Sometimes I take them into the family pen. The Grandfather...
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Auld Lang Syne: The Ghost Herd

I've mentioned it before; I still mourn Cochise, that black and white Pinto that Little Joe rode on Bonanza. It's...
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How the Barn Became a Church

Were you born in a barn? Not me, but I wish. I lived in the tiny asphalt-shingle house just south...
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On Women, Bravery, and Being Old Gray Mares

Do you have a mentor? Someone you respect who's just a few strides ahead of you, and when they go...
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Health Insurance and Horse Dreams

Foot surgery this Friday--it's like preparing for a trip that I don't get to take. All the stress of canceling...
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Your Horse is NOT Your Therapist.

There's a cartoon of a roadside stand with a horse inside. The sign says, "Therapy." We all smile because we're...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Connected.

  Most of us see herd dominance as a line--alpha to the "bottom." It's a limited one-dimensional view. When was...
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How to Love Horses Forever.

We were born this way. It should be part of the Apgar test. It would resolve so much if newborns...
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It's About Greeks and Romans. Even Today.

Is there a natural way to ride a horse? Is it possible to ride in such a way that the...
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