Relaxed & Forward Blog

What Are Your Legs Doing? (Half-halt Help)

  How are the half-halts coming? Does a breath and a light thigh pulse work? Or are your legs exhausted by the end...
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Photo Challenge: Atop

  It's an inherited seat; elders and babies ride loose in time, strong and vulnerable and not quite domesticated. Sky-tall and exquisitely...
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The Mysterious Half-Halt

Thanks to a request, I'm writing about the half-halt. Ever notice how every definition you read starts with the disclaimer that it's the...
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Do You Communicate Like a Coyote?

Some of us baby-talk and cuddle our horses like they're twelve-hundred-pound teddy bears. Some of us enter the pen with...
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Part Two: Norman, Is That You? (The Reactive Horse)

Last week, I wrote about horses who are The Strong Silent Type. This horse is the opposite. Describing him sounds...
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Part One: The Strong Silent Type (Of Horse)

I've said it before: While growing up, I saw She Wore a Yellow Ribbon more often than I saw my...
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What To Do When Your Horse Is Wrong

It started small. It started the way it usually starts; the rider pulled on her horse's face. It's a fundamental disagreement:...
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Energetic Tidiness in the Saddle.

Some of us climb into the saddle and have all kinds of crazy dangerous things happen--right out of the blue. We...
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Riding a Suspension… of Disbelief

Some of us are okay with who we are in the saddle. We don't question the ride, or if we do,...
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Mental Focus Means Not Trying Too Hard

My friend and I took yoga while we were in high school. It was 1971 or so, and I can't...
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Bite Your Tongue.

It's an election year and I'm a politics geek. There, I said it. But the rhetoric is deafening. Sometimes there...
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Riding the Inside of Your Horse

When I was just a dressage-princess-wannabe, before I became a full-blown Dressage Queen, I thought dressage riders all wore a kind...
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A Serenity Prayer For Both of You

The seasons are changing and the air feels cooler. That's what you notice, but your horse seems just a bit...
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The Truth Behind Bit Drama

Do you know how your bit works? No, I mean really. Not some cowboy-on-YouTube's fantasy about horses needing to learn to carry...
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Ride Shorter, Progress Farther.

If I were to write a training book entitled Less is More, it would be hundreds of pages long. The...
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You're a Timid Rider?

What if it isn't a bad thing? I have a "big picture" thing I want to say and it's going...
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Serenity NOW! (Training Calmness)

She wrote, "I struggle with him to stand still. I suspect he recognizes I am nervous."I'm answering an email question...
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Halt, Rein-back, Cha-cha-cha.

This is how it feels: It's a trot that's resistance free. He glides with relaxed strides. At first you think...
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