Relaxed & Forward Blog

Permission to NOT Ride.

Last Tuesday I had an 8 a.m. lesson with a boarder and her sweet gelding. He's had a good summer;...
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Listening with Your Seat.

How's your derrière? Is posterior a more delicate word than rump? Our culture has a lot of fanny chatter: too...
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Dressage Factions and the Real Reason to Compete.

I'm a traditionalist when it comes to the art of dressage. I love the structure, the fundamentals, the words of...
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Natural Instinct: The Human Half

The more we riders understand about horse instinct, the better. Instinct is the starting place; a behavioral baseline from which...
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How to Ride like a Kid.

Remember riding when you were a kid? We climbed on top from a gate or a truck bumper. No bridle,...
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Calming Signals and Equine Gastric Ulcers.

These are two of my favorite topics and I write about them often, but this post is about how calming...
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Respecting Your "Other" Space

I assume your horse respects your space; that on the ground he stands a couple of feet away, relaxed and...
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How to Train Your Horse to Hate Arena Work.

Does your horse go better out of the arena? It seems like some horses just won't go forward and no...
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How to Listen to Your Horse.

I had a friend who visited my farm during my first years here. She arrived for the weekend with books...
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Riding with Intention.

He knows what you're thinking. Does anyone think they can hide their feelings from their horse?...
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An Equine Cure for a Type-A Personality.

First, consider the horse. He is a majestic, elegant animal with a free spirit--intelligent, playful and spontaneous. He is nothing...
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Left in the Dust: Your Ridiculously Slow Response Time.

Have you noticed that horses are incredibly quicker than we are? I'm going to tell you the good news about...
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The Stepford Horses, Dominated to Submission.

Remember the Stepford Wives--a little too submissive, a little too darkly docile? I saw horses just like them last week...
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The Everyday Value of Dressage.

Is your horse a different person under-saddle? Maybe tacking up is all good, but once you are ready to mount,...
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Being Grateful for Things You Don't Like.

My favorite training mentor had a habit that drove me nuts. She would be working with a horse who spooked...
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*Needs Confident Rider*

*Needs a confident rider*. If you see those words while paging though horse ads, what do you think? Used car salesmen...
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A Recipe for Patience.

I want to start by saying I used to consider patience the exact same thing as procrastination. I had no...
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What does the horsie say? Seriously.

Our barn rat, Hannah, didn't meet the horses her first visit to the farm. She was only 3 days old....
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