Relaxed & Forward Blog

Weathering Colic

There is a front coming in tonight. Clouds are moving low and fast, the wind is howling around corners, as...
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Zappa and Einstein: Riding out of the Rut

Here at Infinity Farm we are riding in a rut- literally a rut runs along the rail of the arena....
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Making Little Girls Cry…

The gate opened and in came the first horse/rider combination. The horse was a post-prime Arabian, trotting quickly with her...
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Indian Summer Whine.

The first thing you notice living on the prairie is that there isn’t a lot to distract you from the...
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Thoughts on Retirement, Equine or Human.

Sunset and Spirit
They say that old age is not for the faint of heart and...
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Strong Words for 'Weak' Riders.

I was at a dressage show earlier this season and overheard two women talking about a rider they both knew....
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WEG: Experience Required, Maturity Rewarded.

The World Equestrian Games are in the United States for the first time, at the Kentucky Horse Park. It isn't...
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Autumn, Change…and Marilyn Monroe.

Autumn came this week on the calendar, agreeing with what the great outdoors has been saying for awhile. Evening chores...
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Why More Lessons?

“How long do you think you will have to take lessons?”  Twenty years ago and I can still hear that...
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Riding as Meditation.

Riding can be a form of meditation in the best sense- a release from day to day drama and worry....
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Let the Real Treat be You.

When I was younger, I always carried sugar in my pocket because it felt so great to have my horse...
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From a Whisper to a Scream.

  "Stop nagging him!” If I am not yelling, I am certainly speaking in a loud, firm voice. How did...
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On Horse Movies: Velvet Brown Lied!

It's the movie National Velvet-and a 12 yr. old Elizabeth Taylor lied. The Man from Snowy River came a bit...
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Dressage Queen in a Parade Saddle

It is a vintage parade saddle, the kind the Lone Ranger rode Silver in.  I am a dressage rider, we...
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Fecal Sample Anyone?

First- thanks for reading past the title- you are fearless. But on the other hand, can someone tell me what...
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Ask Not…!

Some horse owners have simple expectations of their horses. Standing in the pasture about covers it- and a couple of...
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Wealth That Money Can't Buy.

Lots of us struggle to balance horses and money. There is an assumption that owning horses is a rich person's...
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The Perfect Purse.

That is what I called my first truck- the perfect purse. It could carry all I needed for work and...
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