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Photo Challenge: Nostalgia

In a dark rosy blur of nostalgia, free of time and fear, images rise to tell the story of who we became, just a half-step...
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The Truth Behind Bit Drama

Do you know how your bit works? No, I mean really. Not some cowboy-on-YouTube's fantasy about horses needing to learn to carry...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Quest

Go the distance. Do it with grace or do it ugly, because some days that's what your best looks like. It...
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Ride Shorter, Progress Farther.

If I were to write a training book entitled Less is More, it would be hundreds of pages long. The...
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Weekly Photo Challenge:

Nothing. There isn't one this week. When a cloud has a thought cloud and even then, nothing to say. ......
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You're a Timid Rider?

What if it isn't a bad thing? I have a "big picture" thing I want to say and it's going...
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Going Where You're Invited

Lately I've been haunted by this drumming thought: Now would be a good time to do something smart. It doesn't...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Edge

It's that time of day/ year/ life. Balanced close enough to the edge that gravity goes pastel light and the...
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Serenity NOW! (Training Calmness)

She wrote, "I struggle with him to stand still. I suspect he recognizes I am nervous."I'm answering an email question...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Mirror

There's a mirror flashing a signal, a code that lights my pond blue: I'll watch now. You rest. ... Anna...
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Halt, Rein-back, Cha-cha-cha.

This is how it feels: It's a trot that's resistance free. He glides with relaxed strides. At first you think...
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How I Spent Your Summer Vacation.

Do you ever have that feeling that you're watching a foreign film, only it's broad daylight and your own life?...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Frame

Wear black and drink the gallery wine. Formulate an intellectual opinion. Consider your emotions. Or Show so much tooth your...
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The Fine Art of Cantankery.

I've had a hard time acting my age. That's not it, exactly. It's more like I'm straddling the Grand Canyon...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Rare

Such hopeful ease, confidence in the face of contrary possibility, is rare for man.   Anna Blake at Infinity Farm...
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Judging Dressage

Dressage isn't perfect, but what part is baby and what part is bath water? Watching the Dressage competition at the...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Fun

The secret he bleated was repeated with a neigh and a bray: hooray for today! ... *apologies to anyone looking...
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A Trailer of One's Own

A horsewoman told me that, at sixty-three, she was the proud owner of her very first horse trailer. I let...
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