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Reciprocity: A Softer Ask, a Softer Bend

I overheard some riders complaining like old campaigners. Asking a horse for bend sounded like the Hundred Years' War. They...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Pure

Not politics, religion; not money or guns. Answer deep and pure, in our heart, soul; our Earth and Sun. ~~~Read...
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Mansplaining in the Barn

Thirty-five years ago, I stood with a group of women protesting a murder sentence given by a judge in Denver....
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Numbers

Yellow solstice to blue. I’ve lost count of the seasons. Was that the year of the big blizzard? Or was...
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Women as Predators.

Do you identify as a predator? I was at a horse show a few years back, helping a client. It...
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Shrews for Shakespeare

I was an above average student, as long as I could avoid any science class involving frogs. Then in junior...
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Weekly Photo & Poem Challenge: Spare

She’s a spare donkey, no longer of use since the cattle were sold, since the rancher moved to town. She’s...
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How to Defuse a Horse Bomb

Maybe you're mentally arranging your to-do list, or rehashing an imaginary rant about something that happened at work, or just...
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Do You Inspire Your Horse?

Do you inspire your horse? Does he volunteer more than you ask? Are you proud of who you are in...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Face

  “Curiosity is a sign of courage,” my trainer said, hushing my correction. Enthusiastic praise for my colt chasing her...
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Talking About the Future with Your Vet.

Are you happy with your veterinarian? It's the question I ask when a client loses a horse or has a...
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We Had a Book Club Before Oprah.

We formed a book club before it was popular. You can tell by our dated name: Women who read too...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Earth

Proclaim the ordinary for its singular wonder.   Anna Blake, Infinity Farm. (WordPress Photo Challenge is a weekly prompt to...
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What I Didn't Know Then

It seems that most things I learn about horses, I learn in hindsight. It's not a bad thing. Horses learn...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Admiration

“Oh, just admiration,” the gray horsewoman said, pale eyes deep in tan skin. “Always kinda liked ’em…” But when she...
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Freak Riding Accident? Hardly. (Helmets, Please)

The horse world has lost some good riders in the last few weeks. Sadly, it happens all too often. Horses...
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Abstract

Abstract, overlap, and the sun of the parts. I mean sum.   Anna Blake, Infinity Farm. (WordPress Photo Challenge is...
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