Relaxed & Forward Blog

Publishers, Beware.

This is my Grandfather Horse. He had a birthday this week--you don't want to know how old his is. He...
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Aspiring to a Goat-like Confidence…

In the late 80's, I got asked to a Toad the Wet Sprocket concert by a teenage boy I knew. He...
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A Reluctant Reality Show.

Let me start by saying I absolutely hate the idea of reality shows. They first started during a writers strike,...
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Uncharted Waters, But Not Lost.

My favorite books are always the ones that tell the story of how it came to pass that we became...
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Best and Worst: Balance the Serious.

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was...
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Choice and Power.

There's always an argument to feel like a loser. On any given day, it's easy to make a list of...
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Words to Live By…

I've been remembering someone who changed my life. He has been gone years now; his name was Micheal, my first...
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Editing is the Perfect Diet.

Disclaimer: I'm no Hemingway. I don't write drunk. I fall asleep after one glass of wine--on the sofa, with five...
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Thinking About the Paths We Take…

Ralph Waldo, this is crazy-making advice. Because breaking a trail might require a machete or snow shoes or a 75...
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Reading In-Between Writing.

I know, but they're the closest fit to the quote that I have here on the farm. Watch 'em at...
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How to Begin…

   I agree with Ms. Parker. The first difference between those-who-write and the rest of our species is that some...
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Small Lives, Literary Aspirations.

Irony--I love it. It's right up there with self-deprecating humor. O'Connor wrote Good Country People--she knew something about writing and...
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Reading and Writing and Waiting.

In a counter-intuitive way, it's a huge accomplishment to get my first rejection letter today. It means at least someone...
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It's a memoir of coming to Infinity Farm.

  Moving to the high prairie was hard in the beginning–it was so different from what I’d known. It took...
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Want to Hear my Elevator Line?

When you finish a book, you are supposed to have a short description that is pithy, immediately intriguing, and leaves...
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