Humans think we can resolve everything with control. Laughable.
If humans were on an inter-species dating site, they would not link us up with horses.
Inside leg to outside rein.
Bitted or bitless is idle chatter if there is no horse in the conversation.
Bits were never the problem.
Too tight versus too giving? How do I know what’s right for her?”
A rider is always cuing either relaxation or tension.
Just. Say. It. Already.