Relaxed & Forward Blog

Photo Challenge: Unusual

It's not unusual to feel still air rush over your cheeks and past your ears. It's you moving forward in...
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Part One: My Horse Betrayed Me.

I hear lots of horror stories in my line of work. "My horse just started bucking, for no good reason." "He...
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Photo Challenge: Collage

How many times did I ask on a breath and a thought that you consider the moment? Consider joining me...
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Common Sense about Horse Communication

The first thing to remember about horses is that their senses are just better than ours. I’ve never trusted my...
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Running in Circles

 I was asked to write about lunging and I assume this means with no swear words. I don't know why...
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Teaching Your Horse to Relax

The rider said that her mare had an undeniable "rushiness" and was always tense. The mare is five years old...
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Bit or Bitless? You Won’t Like the Answer.

Does anyone agree on bits? No. Is riding bitless the perfect solution? No. I've been asked for some bitless information,...
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Learning to Love Negotiation

Rule number one about horses: There will be a high learning curve. Most of us are drawn to horses because...
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Mounting Block Conversations

This is Andante. He likes to have a conversation at the mounting block. He wasn't always like this. In his...
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Calming Signals: YOUR Response.

Photo by Sheri Kerley I'll start with the bad news. For those of us who grew...
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Calming Signals and the Aggressive Horse.

Just to be clear, calming signals are not something humans do to calm horses. It's the language horses use to...
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Calming Signals: The Dance of the Halter

We're breaking in a new farrier here at Infinity Farm. The new guy is soft-spoken, uses a nice pink hoof-stand,...
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Concept Clinics: A different approach

I've been thinking for a while now about the process of learning. It could have something to do with the number...
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Equine Retirement Planning.

First, I watched Brentina's retirement ceremony. Then Secretariat's last race and Valegro's final Olympia freestyle. Who doesn't need to watch Aldrich's...
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Bend… Like a Crescent Moon.

I arrived at the barn mid-fight. The barn manager was refereeing a dust-up between a trainer and a boarder who...
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Touchy About Bits.

Confession #1: There was a time that I would have sold my soul for a spade bit with 12" shanks....
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Touchy About Contact

Question from a reader with a mouth-sensitive green horse: " ...when I watch a video of me riding I worry that...
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Circling Back: How We Became One.

We were hooked and it was written all over us. The first weird looks passed between our parents. We were...
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