Relaxed & Forward Blog

What Are Your Legs Doing? (Half-halt Help)

  How are the half-halts coming? Does a breath and a light thigh pulse work? Or are your legs exhausted by the end...
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The Mysterious Half-Halt

Thanks to a request, I'm writing about the half-halt. Ever notice how every definition you read starts with the disclaimer that it's the...
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Do You Communicate Like a Coyote?

Some of us baby-talk and cuddle our horses like they're twelve-hundred-pound teddy bears. Some of us enter the pen with...
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Part Two: Norman, Is That You? (The Reactive Horse)

Last week, I wrote about horses who are The Strong Silent Type. This horse is the opposite. Describing him sounds...
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Now What? (and Other News)

Now is the winter of my discontent. Hurry spring. A post from my other blog. Yes, I have another blog....
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Part One: The Strong Silent Type (Of Horse)

I've said it before: While growing up, I saw She Wore a Yellow Ribbon more often than I saw my...
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What To Do When Your Horse Is Wrong

It started small. It started the way it usually starts; the rider pulled on her horse's face. It's a fundamental disagreement:...
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Photo Challenge: Shadow

I mean to blur the edge, a half-stop between dark and light, of the distance between us. He's walked on from this...
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Email Subject Line: "Do I Want a Horse?"

February 2nd, 10 pm, 12 degrees. There was dense fog all day. We didn't see the sun and the temperature stayed...
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Energetic Tidiness in the Saddle.

Some of us climb into the saddle and have all kinds of crazy dangerous things happen--right out of the blue. We...
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Release: The Unflattering Truth

A few weeks ago, I was standing, talking with a client at the end of her lesson. She was at...
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Safety and Being a Spoil Sport.

I'm a riding instructor. Wait, it's worse than that. A riding instructor who has read the small print of her liability...
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Riding a Suspension… of Disbelief

Some of us are okay with who we are in the saddle. We don't question the ride, or if we do,...
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Negotiating; Not Fighting.

It was last spring when this ancient donkey came to the farm. In the beginning, we thought she might not...
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Mental Focus Means Not Trying Too Hard

My friend and I took yoga while we were in high school. It was 1971 or so, and I can't...
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Thankful for You.

  I'm doing something different today, in the spirit of Thanksgiving. When I started my blog, almost eight years ago...
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Photo Challenge: Magic

Not other than here. Not other than now. Not other than normal. ... Anna Blake at Infinity Farm Horse Advocate,...
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